It’s really the most relaxing feeling when your baby falls asleep while nursing, all cuddled up in your arms. It feels heavenly to look at that peaceful face, sometimes radiantly smiling in his sleep. However, have you ever questioned yourself if this is okay? Yes, it is, but not all the time! So, when is it not okay, you may ask? We will answer all your questions in this article.
It is quite natural for babies to fall asleep while breastfeeding during the first few months, especially after a bath. Most of the time, an active and playful baby calms down with a breastfeed and falls asleep. All this is innate and there is nothing to worry about. Babies have no set pattern or routine for the first few months or sometimes even first two years of their lives.
For the first few months, a baby may sleep 14 to 18 hours a day, and sometimes even more. Hence, a baby falls asleep while nursing because it just happens to be your baby’s time to sleep. Your baby may be tired, and breastfeeding will not only feed your baby, but also calm him down and put him to sleep.
Have you been wondering why some newborns sleep longer than others? Here’s why:
It can be devastating for a mother to realise that the baby has fallen asleep without being properly fed. She may later realise that her baby is not gaining weight because of the same reason. Look out for the following signs to ensure that your baby is full at the end of the breastfeeding.
The above signs indicate that your baby is full and there is nothing to worry about.
Please remember that if your baby falls asleep while nursing with a fist and tense look on the face, it may mean that your baby is still hungry and frustrated after continuous sucking.
If your baby doesn’t get a full breastfeed, he will get up every half an hour for more feed, and both of you will not get enough sleep. In this case, you may want your baby to stay awake during the feed. Also, if you are planning to wean your baby from the breastfeeding and sleeping association, then the following tips to keep a baby awake during breastfeeding may just work.
There are some telltale signs that your baby is hungry, which you will notice alongside him falling asleep while breastfeeding. If you are unsure of why this occurs, make sure to look out for the following signs.
A low- pitched cry that rises and falls in low bursts, indicates your baby is hungry. However, you are likely to notice other signs first.
If you see your baby sucking on his fist, it means he is hungry. This is one of the first signs of a hungry baby.
When hungry, your baby will take shorter naps and wake up feeling restless and move around in his crib. This is usually accompanied by crying.
When drinking milk, your baby may open his mouth and continue sucking even after the breast or bottle is empty. This indicates he is hungry.
Firstly, try and fix a day sleeping and nap schedule. Start your day by giving yourself a 30 or 90 minute window and feed the baby at the start of the day, as soon as the baby is awake. Give the next feed after the nap. This way, the baby will be wide awake while nursing because he has just finished his nap. However, if your baby’s sleeping cycle is 120 minutes or longer, then you may want to give the second feed 20 minutes before the nap, so that your baby doesn’t wake up too early due to hunger.
If you feel that even after devising a predictable feeding and nap schedule, your baby is not taking a full feed and falling asleep amidst the nursing, then try out the following tricks.
Falling asleep while getting breastfed isn’t a big deal, as the baby may do it when tired. However, it does become a problem if he is unable to drink enough, which may make him underweight. Use the above tips to keep him active and prevent him from falling off to sleep too quickly.